You're too fat or too thin, her breasts too large or too small, your hair is the wrong color, style and length, it would be nice if ... The bottom line is that no matter what you do, you're not good enough to keep the man in your life or draw a new one. This is the message that the media bombards women with on a daily basis. If a woman dressed explicitly in order to get the admiration and attention of men and women.
If the large, impersonal socialStructure is to say to women who are always in competition with others, you can imagine the psychological damage this causes to the smaller, more personalized social structure of female relationships with close friends and family. The majority of women are not intimidated by movie stars and supermodels and Playboy centerfold print media, because they have physical access to their male partners. But if your friends and family can show a little skin too much to be a difficult task to doThat in life you can not see the man, its division into two sizes too small blouse. Many of us are shocked when friends betray friends on the talk show, with an admission that she slept with her best friend's boyfriend or husband. Unfortunately, this happens more often than women are willing to admit.
As a consulting psychologist working with women, I discovered that one of the underlying causes of why women are unfaithful to each other on the basis of self-hatred and lowSelf-esteem rather than the need to hurt other women. In therapy sessions, women have shown that the reason he stayed with his friend or relative or friend not man because man was particularly attractive, but because of what the woman who had represented. So essentially, in bed with another woman male partner was a way to indirectly hold the qualities of the woman who admired his friend.
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Sonia, 33: "MyRelationship with my sister-in-law is a burden for the whole family. I hate them because my husband's brother is always pride myself as beautiful and intelligent she is. I was so tired of hearing that sh -! "When I went on a business trip to two weeks, I asked my husband to stay with her big mouth all the family said that he denied, but none I believe ... I have four children and went to High School. I envy my sister to get a college education and notwith a group of guys. Sometimes I wonder how it feels to be her. Her stomach is flat, has the more sweet. I told myself if I could have her husband, then it means I'm better at it is. "
Belinda, 28: "A friend told me of our mutual friend Tammy:" We do not have goals, even in the same type of man who attracts our Tammy. Your body is Slammin 'can not just lawyers and doctors. Do with the way our fat asses, we should be happy ifHe got a job. "It hurts me so much. I can not believe you said that. I love Tammy, but I could not help wondering if it was better than I thought. Yes, I slept with her boyfriend. I had. I also had to prove that I are as good as. I do not know why even bother going to bed with him, he was a terrible lover, but I'm even worse friend. "
Doreen, 24: "Your friend buys a dress that you know right love, you love that dress, but you can not bear.?because the stomach is too big. Fine. We always go shopping and see if the same pair of shoes that we want to buy, you guessed it, is always in their size and not mine. They have promoted. I'm happy for her, you know what I mean. If someone had an ice cream cone and licking her face was always the first to talk about how beautiful it is, do not you just want to try again? I never will look like Sabrina in a suit, I can accept the fact that I did not do thatWay. If we humans are always looking for her. But when I made love to her boyfriend, I did it was because I wanted to feel as good as Sabrina. I hate myself for what I did because it was my only friend. But finally something that I thought that only they could have. "
If a woman know that their social value is attached to its look, buy overlooks the real beauty lies in the substance of their character. Besex with a friend, male partner, is an instrument of destruction which perpetuates a power of competition and self-hatred of women. A woman raped a woman exploited emotionally and sexually intimate with his male partner. Loyalty, trust, loyalty and integrity, honor and loyalty are psychological limits to strengthen healthy relations with oneself and others.
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